Destinations
A destination proposal?
If you haven’t quite got that far in your relationship, would you consider a destination proposal?
We’ve all heard of a destination wedding. The appeal of marrying on a white sand beach with the gentle sound of the waves lapping is easy to understand. It’s relaxing and romantic. Everyone is in a good mood because they’re all getting a vacation out of it. No wonder they’re becoming more popular. If you haven’t quite got that far in your relationship, would you consider a destination proposal?
If your partner dreams of being whisked away somewhere warm, sunny and romantic, then why not do that? It could be the perfect place to declare your love and propose a lifelong commitment to each other. Chances are you want this to be a surprise, so where do you start?
Annual Leave
It’s probably best to start with their workplace. You need to let their boss know that you both want to take a vacation. After all, annual leave is sometimes tricky to work out. Be certain to ask them to keep it a secret. If the time off is secured, you need to check the passport is valid. It must still be in date after you intend to return. You will also need to check the local restrictions or visa requirements of your intended destination.
If all of this checks out, then it’s time to book your flights, accommodation, and excursions. If you know the area well, you might be able to book an exclusive restaurant or plan an event at your favorite place. By now you’re probably getting quite excited. But there are a few more details to manage first.
The Proposal
Start with the engagement ring. No proposal is complete without it! You can select styles like the old cut engagement rings if you want something unique and romantic. Perhaps you already have an idea of what your partner might like? You should also prepare what you want to say as you get on one knee. It’s easy to trip over your words if you haven’t planned and rehearsed this bit.
All that’s left now is the packing. If you’re not confident you’re going to get this bit right, call in a friend or sibling of your partner to manage this bit for you. Don’t forget to pack some extra cash just in case anything gets forgotten. Now, how are you going to whisk your partner away?
Start Right
You might arrange a limo to pick her up from work. Or maybe you’ll wait for your partner to come home and then surprise her with the tickets. You could work this surprise for a full day with cryptic messages and clues to keep her guessing. Why not start with a spa day for you both before the limo picks you up for the airport? What would make her heart melt?
Proposals should be as romantic as you can possibly make them. They should be memorable and magical, and even provide a little mystery. They don’t always have to be a surprise, but they should be surprising. Would you take the love of your life away for a destination proposal? Where would you go?
Destinations
Faith, fanaticism, and everything in between in Manaoag
The Minor Basilica of Our Lady of the Rosary of Manaoag, also known as the Manaoag Church, is quite popular, attracting over 5.73 million visitors in 2024 alone. We #LGBT checked while in search of faith…
The Minor Basilica of Our Lady of the Rosary of Manaoag, also known as the Manaoag Church, is quite popular, attracting over 5.73 million visitors in 2024 alone. But this should not be surprising since this Roman Catholic church in Pangasinan isn’t just a religious site, but is also valuable culturally and artistically.
Here are some observations from us.
@outragemag #LGBT and looking for #faith in #manaoagchurch in #Pangasinan ♬ original sound – Outrage Magazine
Una, placed under the jurisdiction of the Archdiocese of Lingayen-Dagupan, this place is historical. The original shrine was founded in 1600, with construction of the church started in 1882 and completed around 1911-12.
Ikalawa, there are must-check architectural features – e.g. the central retablo, completed by the Tampinco Atelier of Manila incorporates Baroque columns from the 18th-century altar.
Ikatlo, the late Pope Francis raised the shrine to the status of a Minor Basilica in 2014. This means that it has a special bond with the Pope.
Ika-apat, it is home to the statue of Our Lady of Manaoag, a 17th-century ivory and silver image of the Virgin Mary with the child Jesus. This was brought to the Philippines from Spain via the Manila galleon trade from Acapulco, Mexico by one Padre Juan de San Jacinto.
Miracles attributed to Our Lady of Manaoag are numerous – e.g. the church being saved from the Japanese attacks during World War III, rain during droughts, and so on. Some of these miracles are depicted in murals in the church.
And ika-lima, there are manifestations of the merging of pre-Christian with Roman Catholic beliefs. Outside the church, for instance, there are vendors selling the Sto. Niño with that big phallus, lucky charms along with those anting-anting, and gayuma sold in brown bottles.
No matter the appeal, this isn’t for everyone. For instance, the commercialization of faith is quite blatant (such as the selling of those merch), and it could be a real turn-off. Also, security can be O.A. tight – e.g. there may be times when this could feel unwelcoming, such as when the security guy approached us to enumerate what’s allowed or not allowed inside the establishment. Jesus himself, I’d say, could be questioned in churches like this because of how he looked and how he acted.
But if in the area, you may want to drop by. Particularly since the locality does not have much to offer touristy-wise anyway. Your search for faith can be your key to discovering this historical, artistic and… yeah, religious gem.
The Minor Basilica of Our Lady of the Rosary of Manaoag is located on M. H. del Pilar Street, Manaoag, 2430 Pangasinan.
Destinations
In an airy Baguio café via Rebel Bakehouse
When you check lists of places for foodies, many of the same venues are mentioned… and one of those is Rebel Bakehouse. We checked if it’s worth a try.
Baguio City has become a must-visit location for those looking for good – or at least well-promoted – restaurants. But we noted that when you check lists of places for foodies, many of the same venues are mentioned… and one of those is Rebel Bakehouse.
We checked the branch right beside the Baguio Cathedral of Our Lady of Atonement, and… how was it for us?
@outragemag #LGBT checking #RebelBakehouse in #Baguio to ascertain if it's a good alternative to #starbucks, #CBTL ♬ original sound – Outrage Magazine
Una, the place is tricky to find… at least for non-churchgoers. We actually thought it’s in some street parallel to the church; instead, it’s actually right inside the church’s compound.
Ikalawa, if there’s a word to describe the venue, it’s maaliwalas (airy). The venue is divided into spots – e.g. there’s the upper floor, the inside, and the seats outside. Since Baguio City can still get cool, or even cold, open-air din siya, though this also means that flies from outside can (and do) enter the premises.
Ikatlo, the workers are chill. If asked, they can elaborate on what’s being offered; otherwise, if you don’t engage with them, they’re typical café staff… there but not there.
Ika-apat, how was the food? TBH, since we just came from a heavy meal, we just tried some of their breads and drinks.
- The Classic Pain Au Chocolat (₱150) and the Cinnamon Bun (₱180) looked pretty, easily reminding me, personally, of breads in some bakery in Paris. But… taste-wise, they’re not remarkable. We’d go as far as saying that they both tasted the same… just like croissant. The dark chocolate inside the former was, at least, good; but the cinnamon was not even apparent in the latter.
- The kape (₱110), served black, was so-so. I – sadly – really can’t even remember drinking it.
We’re not sure the way to beat Starbucks or Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf is to mimic them. Which is how being in Rebel Bakehouse felt like; as if we were in one of the international coffee chains’ branches in Tagaytay. This isn’t to say this is bad… even considering our misgivings with the breads and kape. After all, this is still an okay, and local, option.
Perhaps if we visit again, if at all, we’d try their meals na. But until then, join us as we look for more lafangan venues…
Rebel Bakehouse is located right beside the Baguio Cathedral of Our Lady of Atonement, at CH6X+WM4, Upper Bonifacio St., Baguio City.
Destinations
Checking the charm of Baguio City’s Café by the Ruins
Googling eating venues in Baguio City will give you a lot of must-check places. And among those that, consistently, enter lists of recommended restaurants is Café by the Ruins. We #LGBT checked to see why.
Here’s an interesting thing with Baguio City: the city approved the cutting of actual trees to allow the building of a car park (we remember, SM), but too many of its local restaurants now build forests within its venues. Oh My Gulay! comes to mind, though also Café by the Ruins, this famed restaurant that occupies the lot containing the ruins of the Garden Theater outdoor cinema that was built in 1912 by Hubert Phelps Whitmarsh.
We dropped by for a quick meal… and here are some observations from us.
@outragemag Why is #CafebytheRuins in #Baguio still popular (even if it can be pricey)? We #LGBT ♬ original sound – Outrage Magazine
Una, this place is easy to find. Yeah, you can take a taxi and tell the driver the place’s name; everyone knows where it is, so your driver could not possibly get lost. But you can also just choose to walk there. It is not too far from Burnham Park, and right beside the city hall of Baguio.
Ikalawa, not much has changed design-wise for the restaurant; meaning, if you’ve been there before, it looks – basically – the same now. You enter a wooden gate, traverse those hanging plants, and then enter a largely wooden two-floor venue. Welcoming you would be the famed breadshop, and then there are tables and seats for those who’d want to dine.
Ikatlo, slight slow ang service. Though that may just be because this place is always busy. But at least our servers did know their products. And they’re honest, too (e.g. “The Thai Beef Salad you want can be offered without some of the key ingredients, so I won’t recommend it.”).
Ika-apat, how was their food?
- We wanted to “wash away” the taste of the steaks we had at Sizzling Plate, so we ordered the Filet Mignon (thick slice of beef tenderloin wrapped in bacon, and then served with salad and marble potatoes, ₱520). Properly cooked so it remained juicy, this one didn’t disappoint.
- The Creole Pasta (pasta with shrimp and mushroom cream sauce with paprika, ₱380) was okay naman, though they didn’t have chili flakes (only Tabasco sauce), thus limiting our desire to make this spicier. It was filling… even if the portion was on the smaller side.
This restaurant is one of those with too many items in the menu, so – yeah – you’re bound to find something you’d like. Note that some of the goods here are costly – e.g. Breads sell from ₱60-₱180, Banana Turon for ₱120, Suman at Tsokolate for ₱210, and Dinuguan with Puto for ₱240. But these are among those that helped make this restaurant known.
Googling eating venues in Baguio City will give you a lot of must-check places. And among those that, consistently, enter lists of recommended restaurants is Café by the Ruins. This is not surprising, really, because this place can be described as largely consistent. So, yeah, while the breads there remain too expensive, everything else is… generally… okay, considering they taste better-than-okay anyway.
Go check… or just join us, as we look for more lafangan venues…
Café by the Ruins is located at 25 Shuntug Rd., Baguio City. For more information, contact 0966 528 9072 or email cafebytheruins@gmail.com.
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