{"id":10642,"date":"2025-09-11T13:10:33","date_gmt":"2025-09-11T05:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/?p=10642"},"modified":"2025-09-11T13:10:34","modified_gmt":"2025-09-11T05:10:34","slug":"finding-neverland-in-london","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/finding-neverland-in-london\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Neverland in London"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>The gay community may have experienced discrimination, but it is \u2013 sadly, and yet truly \u2013 among the most discriminatory. This is most apparent in our lookism, stressed by our over-emphasis on youth. And yeah\u2026 for gays, aging over 30 means you are basically already dead.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This links us to Peter Pan, J. M. Barrie\u2019s character; the boy who refused to grow up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Similar to so many gay men, Peter\u2019s not growing up symbolized many things\u2026 from avoidance of the burdens of adulthood, escaping the ordinariness of adult life, to embracing everything attached with youth like freedom, adventure, and innocence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In Kensington Gardens, I checked Peter\u2019s statue, the 1912 bronze sculpture made by Sir George Frampton. This is located to the west of The Long Water, close to J.M. Barrie&#8217;s former home on Bayswater Road.<\/p>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@outragemag\/video\/7548691847594544402\" data-video-id=\"7548691847594544402\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" >\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@outragemag\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@outragemag?refer=embed\">@outragemag<\/a> Find <a title=\"peterpan\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/peterpan?refer=embed\">#PeterPan<\/a> not in <a title=\"neverland\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/neverland?refer=embed\">#Neverland<\/a> but in <a title=\"kensingtongardens\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/kensingtongardens?refer=embed\">#KensingtonGardens<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound  - Outrage Magazine\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-Outrage-Magazine-7548691919669299969?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound  &#8211; Outrage Magazine<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Standing about 14 feet high, the statue is topped by Peter standing on what may be a tree stump that is decorated with figures of fairies and animals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This statue\u2019s history is full of adult-created conflicts. For instance, J.M. Barrie and Frampton didn\u2019t agree on the model to use. Also, J.M. Barrie had the original bronze erected in Kensington Gardens in 1912 without permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are actually six other casts of this statue in other places, including in Egmont Park in Belgium, in Queens Gardens in Perth in Western Australia, and in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery aligncenter has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"614\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"10651\" src=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland1-614x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10651\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland1-614x1024.jpg 614w, https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland1-180x300.jpg 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100vw, 614px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"614\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"10650\" src=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8-614x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8-614x1024.jpg 614w, https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8-180x300.jpg 180w, https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8-768x1280.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Neverland8.jpg 864w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 614px) 100vw, 614px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peter\u2019s appeal continues to this day, considering we know adulting is a painful process. Alas\u2026 for gay men, <em>sana lang<\/em> we celebrate youth for the wonder of being young, and not see it as the only form of existence. We\u2019d be better off <em>sana<\/em> as a community that fights all forms of discrimination, including those coming from among us. Because growing older need not be harder than it is, if we can support \u2013 instead of attack \u2013 each other\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Shrine of Youth: The Peter Pan Statue is at Kensington Gardens in London, UK.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Peter Pan\u2019s not growing up symbolized many things\u2026 from avoidance of the burdens of adulthood, escaping the ordinariness of adult life, to embracing everything attached with youth like freedom, adventure, and innocence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,7],"tags":[2222,110,1742,1650],"class_list":["post-10642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-destinations","category-travel","tag-london","tag-travel-2","tag-travel-adventure","tag-uk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10642"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10642\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10652,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10642\/revisions\/10652"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}