{"id":3678,"date":"2017-09-05T05:35:34","date_gmt":"2017-09-05T05:35:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/?p=3678"},"modified":"2017-09-05T05:35:34","modified_gmt":"2017-09-05T05:35:34","slug":"7-most-popular-after-sex-secrets-women-tell-their-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/7-most-popular-after-sex-secrets-women-tell-their-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Most popular after-sex secrets women tell their friends"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kiss and don\u2019t tell is a thing of the past, as women have confessed they love dissecting and discussing their most intimate moments with their girlfriends. A recent study has narrowed down the talking points to the seven topics that will be analyzed without fail in conversations between sexually active women.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The study, conducted by\u00a0VictoriaMilan<\/a>, asked 8,407 of its active female members from 21 countries what they take notes on during sex to talk about with their girlfriends later on.\u00a0Men can be certain that each and every time they take a woman to bed that the following 7 topics will be discussed.<\/p>\n

Duration<\/strong>\u00a0of the encounter is always a hot topic of conversation for women from Belgium, Finland and Norway. Timing is everything, and she will have been observing the amount of time it took him to approach her and to ask her to come home with him right down to the minutes, hours or days they spent in the bedroom. How long did he spend on foreplay and if they had sex more than once, what was his recovery time\u2026?<\/p>\n

Size<\/strong>\u00a0is a hot topic, but the less-well-endowed will be relieved to know it\u2019s not the make or break of the bedroom rating a woman will give you. The size of a man\u2019s penis is the first thing women from Ireland, Poland and South Africa and will ask their girlfriends, and if it wasn\u2019t the right size, what\u2019s important is how he made up for it. Technique with fingers, tongues and spending time ensuring she is fully satisfied will count for more than massive size.<\/p>\n

Manscaping<\/strong>\u00a0is a massive topic of conversation for women from United States, Australia and Denmark \u2013 they will be checking to see whether a man is trimmed, waxed, shaved, styled or au naturel from the top of his head to the tips of his toes. Getting it right\u00a0down there<\/em>\u00a0is all a matter of personal preference but the ladies tell us a good way to think about it is: what you prefer in others should be reflected on yourself.<\/p>\n

Women from France, Spain and United Kingdom tell us\u00a0the words<\/strong>\u00a0said to a woman before you get her to bed are important, but what about the words whispered once you\u2019re between the sheets? Was he commanding in bed? Was he sweet? Did he tell you he loved you in the first five minutes? Was there nervous chatter, or complete silence? All of this will be taken into account \u2013 and repeated to a gaggle of girlfriends \u2013 after the event.<\/p>\n

Smell and taste<\/strong>\u00a0are significant factors for all women, but are the #1 topic for analysis for women from Switzerland, Austria and Sweden. Was he a smoker, drinking something strong or did he brush his teeth before taking her to bed? Was his skin salty, sweet, sweaty\u2026? Had he taken care to ensure he was clean and ready for her or did he assume she would go down regardless of the fact he\u2019d come straight from work to the date and beyond? Each and every detail is taken into account \u2013 and gents would be well advised to take a quick shower if they want their lover to be generous in bed.<\/p>\n

A man\u2019s desperation and the need to have her\u00a0right here, right now<\/strong>\u00a0will definitely be the #1 topic of conversation among women from Netherlands, New Zealand and Hungary but of course \u2013 gents should ensure their audience is open to the idea of a restaurant bathroom or a public park on the walk home. Sometimes the fact that it started in the hallway and ended up on the kitchen floor is enough.<\/p>\n

A man\u2019s\u00a0stamina<\/strong>\u00a0is of extreme importance to women from Germany, Italy and Czech Republic who will be mesmerised by, and memorising, how hard her man is, and how long he stays that way for her. As unsatisfying as it might be if a guy can\u2019t get hard after drinking too much or pure nerves, the girl might not be so upset because knows this is going to be a great story for the girls\u00a0tomorrow<\/span><\/span>.<\/p>\n

Founder and CEO of Victoria Milan, Sigurd Vedal, said the morning after conversations are a great opportunity for competitive women to showcase their sexual prowess.<\/p>\n

\u201cWomen share intimate details with each other as it shows they can attract amazing men who take care of them both inside and outside the bedroom. We also know that if he\u2019s great, this information will only be shared with the closest of friends, to avoid predatory women coming after him.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe conversations between women are very open \u2013 they\u2019ll tell their close friends both the good and the bad, spots and all. At the end of the day, it\u2019s important to be able to have a good laugh when things don\u2019t go so well in the bedroom,\u201d Vedal said.<\/p>\n

This survey was conducted in 21 countries: Sweden, Australia, New Zealand, Austria, Denmark, Belgium, Finland, Spain, Norway, Poland, France, Italy, Hungary, United States, Netherlands, Germany, United Kingdom, Ireland, Czech Republic, Switzerland and South Africa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kiss and don\u2019t tell is a thing of the past, as women have confessed they love dissecting and discussing their most intimate moments with their girlfriends. A recent study has narrowed down the talking points to the 7 topics that will be analysed without fail in conversations between sexually active women.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3679,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[19,44,1857,20],"class_list":["post-3678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-newsmakers","category-spotlight","tag-health","tag-sex","tag-sex-secrets","tag-wellness"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3678"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3678\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3680,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3678\/revisions\/3680"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zestmag.com\/online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}